InnerSelf's Daily Inspiration
December 18, 2025
The Pathway to Integrated Living
— Daily reminders for a conscious, connected life —
How often do you find yourself blaming others, making excuses, or digging your heels in with "I don't want to"? Maybe you postpone the difficult conversation, procrastinate on that phone call, or complain about politicians instead of taking action. We've all been there—stuck in passivity, avoiding what we know deep down is right. But here's the truth: this pattern keeps us small, helpless, and disconnected from our own power.
The focus for today is:
I am responsible for what I think, feel, say, and do.
Today's message is inspired by Jude Bijou, M.A., M.F.T., author of the book: Attitude Reconstruction: A Blueprint for Building a Better Life
Passivity developed as a pattern for a good reason—we were avoiding our emotions and had to find somewhere to channel what we were experiencing. But now we're grown up and need to handle situations differently. When we stand up and lovingly assert ourselves, we feel joy. We feel virtuous because we're obeying our inner wisdom. The simple formula is remembering that you are responsible for your own self. Ask yourself: What do I know in my heart of hearts is best? You intuitively know what's right—it's an inner feeling. So listen and follow through.
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Overcoming Passivity and Embracing Personal Responsibility
Author: Jude Bijou, M.A., M.F.T.
A Reminder:
I am responsible for what I think, feel, say, and do.
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RELATED BOOK: Attitude Reconstruction: A Blueprint for Building a Better Life
With practical tools, real-life examples, and everyday solutions for thirty-three destructive attitudes, Attitude Reconstruction can help you stop settling for sadness, anger, and fear, and infuse your life with love, peace, and joy.
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About the Author
Jude Bijou is a licensed marriage and family therapist (MFT), an educator in Santa Barbara, California and the author of Attitude Reconstruction: A Blueprint for Building a Better Life. In 1982, Jude launched a private psychotherapy practice and started working with individuals, couples, and groups. She also began teaching communication courses through Santa Barbara City College Adult Education.
Author's website: AttitudeReconstruction.com
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